behind the mask
Mental Strength, mindset

Who’s Behind The Mask?

***Who is the person behind the mask?***

Through my own experiences, I have found many people have created the unconscious habit of putting on different “masks” for different circumstances.

I know I have done it, maybe you have too?

If thats the case then who is under the mask?

Who is the real you?

Do you actually know?

We put on “masks” when we are with our partner, our kids, family, friends, work colleagues, but to what end?

why do you feel the need to hide your own true self?

your own unique beautiful identity?

Wearing masks is born out of fear.

fear of being rejected.

fear of not fitting in.

Thinking from a place of fear will always bring you misery, you will be in a place of darkness, not allowing your true self to shine.

But I ask you, if you feel you would be judged by these people then isn’t it possible that you do not need anyone who did not appreciate the person under the mask?

Why not free yourself of people who do not appreciate you for who you really are beneath the mask?

The whole world is full of relationships and opportunities, just waiting to unveil yourself to the world, the real you.

So when are you shedding the Masks and stories, to reveal your one true self?

 

Truth, Courage & Happiness

Dean x

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An abundant life
Balance, Inspiration, mindset, Motivation

An Abundant Life

A lot of people struggle with this and their thoughts come from a place of lack, scarcity and fear. I know I have been there many times.

It is so easy to remain stuck and focus on what you have. If that is not what you want then that feeling of dread and fear can consume you.

In the Upanishads, from the Hindu scriptures, it is said:

“From abundance he took abundance, and abundance still remains”

How beautiful is that, you can have all you want and still there is enough for everyone else.

There is enough for everyone, there really is, but it is so often forgotten as we get bogged down in what we don’t have and that is what we end up with.

So today, simply accept that you can have what you want, you just have to reach out for it…

 

Your life is so abundant
If you make it so
If you focus on what you want
Instead of what you don’t… no.

Abundance is everywhere
If you dare believe its true
From your happiness and the air you breathe
to the desires you want, yes you!

Take abundance from abundance
And abundance still remains
So you CAN have an abundant happy life
or a life that stays the same

Our Universe consists of all our thoughts
What we say and do
So which abundance to you seek
its really up to you

For I choose an abundance of happiness
What are you thinking of?
For when you choose your thought
Does it really serve?

So when I ask you of abundance
What do you truly see
A life of Joy and happiness
Or one of Misery?

So which abundance do you choose
That thought you have every day
The thought that can create all you want
or take it all away

So which life do you choose to have?
Which steps are you willing you take?
the path to a life of abundance?
Or one full of misery and hate?

Take abundance from abundance
And abundance still remains
I choose a rich, awesome life
not one without a flame

You are allowed to have everything you want, so reach out and take it x

Be True
Be Courageous
Be Happy

Dean x

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Dean Coulson - Why diet drinks make you fat
Health, palate

8 Reasons Why Diet Drinks Make You Fat

There is no way of getting around it. If you are drinking fizzy drinks especially diet drinks then your there is a good chance that your health will be compromised.

Sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but you knew that anyway right? 🙂

I want to make it clear that when I say diet drinks I mean any drink that has been labelled “diet” by the manufacturer with the intention of making you believe that because it says diet, it is healthy.

First I just want to clarify something. The word DIET literally means what you eat, but is more traditionally known for calorie restriction these days, which tends to end up with whoever partakes in a diet hungry and eventually miserable because of it.

The word diet has been used time and time again to convince people that buying a branded “diet” drink will be better for them, simply because the focus is on calories NOT health. It seems scale weight is more important these days than health, which is insane to think a number on a scale can potentially affect your whole day.

The simple fact remains. It is very important for you as a consumer to be switched on to the fact and be aware of the ingredients in diet or health drinks and how it actually affects you and your health. It is your responsibility to check and read labels and not blindly accept everything you are told.

Remember…  Diet is not the same as health. They are not mutually exclusive.

Whether diet drinks claim or insinuate that drinking them will help you lose weight or increase sports performance, it is worth further investigation.

With that in mind lets explore why diet drinks may not be the answer to being overweight if you genuinely care about your health…

…You know that your Health comes first right?

If you do then I suggest you seriously consider changing what you drink to something that can actually heal the body rather than potentially harm it. Whether you think they help you lose weight or give you energy or taste nice, diet drinks do nothing for your health, in fact they are more likely to be detrimental to it.

Remember, the only thing you truly have is your health, so it makes sense to look after it right?

 

Sugar and Sweeteners

There seems to be a wide spread belief that changing one sugar to another somehow makes it a diet drink

Why?

Because mainstream marketing has convinced us that health is irrelevant and as long as you are slim and watch your calories it doesn’t matter how you feel, but how you look that counts.

Calories are held is such high regard in our current society that it seems nothing else matters.

Well I am here to tell you it does.

A calorie is NOT a calorie because there is a whole wealth of other things at play.

Different calorie sources can have vastly different effects on hunger, hormones, energy expenditure and the brain regions that control food intake and what we drink.

I am sure everyone knows that 100 calories from a mars bar is just not the same as 100 calories from broccoli. They have a completely different reaction to the body.

Just like a Diet drink is not a health drink!

Over the last few years the term diet in diet drinks has been used to try and convince us that we can still enjoy these highly sweetened drinks without any detriment to our health. Convincing us that stripping out sugar and using “zero calorie” alternatives are the way forwards.

So lets just take a look at what they use as a sugar replacement…

 

Artificial Sweeteners

There are many different sweeteners used as a substitute for sugar, so manufacturers can use the term Diet, just because it has less calories, which I have just outlined, means nothing at all when it comes to your health.

 

Sucralose

Sucralose is a combination of glucose and fructose, which are 2 different forms of sugar. Chlorine molecules are added to create a totally synthetic compound. This is not a natural molecule produced in nature and the body is not designed to metabolise it. In fact, it cannot metabolise it so it therefore does not have any calories, hence why there are claims it is calories free. If it could metabolise it, then it would have a calorific value.

However, although it is claimed that Sucralose is not absorbed, research on animals has shown that 15% of sucralose is absorbed. There is evidence to suggest it is absorbed by fat. Further studies have shown that Sucralose can decrease the good bacteria in the intestine by 50%. This has a negative impact on your digestive process.

It also negatively affects a protein in the body that is beneficial to health. Many people have complained about symptoms from sucralose intake, namely migraines, dizziness and blurred vision.

 

Aspartame

Aspartame is an artificial sweetener and is made from three chemicals, Methanol, Aspartic Acid and Phenylalanine.

Methanol: When aspartame reaches the small intestine the methanol breaks down into formaldehyde (what they use to replace blood in dead bodies) and formic acid in the body, both of these chemicals have enormous difficulty being detoxified or broken down by the body and being excreted.

Both formaldehyde and methanol are neurotoxins. Neuro toxins are substances that are poisonous and destructive to your nervous system. So methanol poisoning symptoms are many and varied including weakness, behavioural disturbances, vision problems, numbness, pain, and memory lapses. Formaldehyde is also a known carcinogen.

Aspartic acid when used in excess; has been linked to neurological symptoms. Aspartate acts as a neurotransmitter that, in excess, allows influx of calcium into nerve cells, which can lead to cell death. It is known as an excitotoxin. This can lead to memory loss and in children can lead to hyperactivity.

Phenylalanine is an amino acid found in the brain. Ingestion of aspartame can lead to excessive phenylalanine, leading to decreased serotonin (the happy hormone). Decreased serotonin has been linked with the inability to sleep and depression.

Aspartame toxicity can lead to symptoms of memory loss, frequent headaches and craving more aspartame laced food or drink.

 

Acesulfame K

This is a sweetener about 200 times sweeter than sugar. It contains the carcinogen methylene chloride, known to cause confusion, headaches and visual disturbances. Basic safety testing has only been done on animals and conclusive data on risks in humans is unknown.

 

Avoid Artificial Sweeteners!

The simple fact is, artificial sweeteners should be avoided!

They have been shown to stimulate the appetite, increase carbohydrate cravings and actually stimulate fat storage and hence weight gain. Exactly what that not marketed for.

It is easy to blindly accept this marketing hype. Just because some says it is ok, doesn’t mean it is. We are creatures of nature and designed to live off what the land provides, not what is created in a lab. There is simply no need from a health standpoint to drink it.

 

8 Reasons not to have Diet Drinks

It confuses your body

Artificial sweeteners a much sweeter than real sugar, which  over time allows products like fizzy diet drinks dull our senses to naturally sweet foods like fruit. Even more troubling, even though these are termed diet drinks, these alternatives to sugar have been shown to have the same effect on your body as sugar.  So they still trigger insulin, which sends your body into fat storage mode that can lead to weight gain.

 

It Could Lead to Weight Gain NOT weight Loss

Just because the labels claim that fizzy diet drinks are calorie free won’t necessarily help you lose weight. Studies have shown that over the course of about a decade, people drinking these diet drinks had a 70% greater increase in waist circumference compared with non-drinkers. Heres the thing. Participants of the study who drank at least 2 or more drinks experienced a far greater increase, sometimes as much as 500%

There are claimed psychological reasons too. If someone thinks they are drinking no calories they will eat more junk food that comes with it thinking that it is ok to do so.

 

It’s associated with an increased risk of type 2 diabetes

Type II Diabetes is rising at an alarming rate in recent years and has now reached 300 million people worldwide. Diabetes is highly associated with sugar consumption and obesity, which is why the argument for replacing sugar with artificial alternatives came around. However there is now evidence to suggest this is the case.  One study showed that having diet drinks doubled the risk of type II diabetes.

 

The link to Metabolic Syndrome

Metabolic syndrome is defined as having the following risk factors that can raise your risk of diabetes, stroke and heart disease.

Increased abdominal belly fat

Elevated Blood Pressure

Low HDL Cholesterol levels

High Glucose

High levels of triglycerides

Drinking “calorie free” drinks instead of sugar ones makes no difference against metabolic syndrome.

 

It has been associated with depression

It has been proved that there is a link between diet drinks and depression.

A recent study found that over the course of 10 years, people who drank more than four cans of soda a day were 30% more likely to develop depression than those who steered clear of sugary drinks. The correlation held true for both regular and diet drinks, but the risk appeared to be greater for those who primarily drank diet drinks. Although this type of study can’t prove cause and effect, its findings are worth considering.

 

It may cause heart problems

Just one diet soft drink a day could harm your health and could boost your risk of having a vascular event such as stroke, heart attack or vascular death studies have found. Diet soda drinkers were 43% more likely to have experienced a vascular problem than those who drank none. Regular soda drinkers did not appear to have an increased risk of vascular problems, although we have already covered other potential health problems associated with drinking sugary beverages. Researchers say more studies need to be conducted before definitive conclusions can be made about diet soda’s effects on health.

 

It has no nutritional value

When you drink diet soda even though you are told you are taking in zero calories, it makes no difference if it still triggers your hormone insulin. The fact is you are also not swallowing anything that does your body any good, either. The best no calorie drink is Plain old water.

Water is essential for many of our bodily processes, so replacing it with diet soda is a negative thing. It does not give the body what it needs to feel and perform at its best. If it’s the fizziness you crave, try sparkling water.

If your taste buds are so tuned into taste, then cut and squeeze a fresh lime or lemon to make a healthy thirst quenching beverage.

 

Artificial Sweetener is linked to headaches

Early studies on aspartame suggests that this artificial sweetener may trigger headaches in some people. I have several clients who used to suffer from migraines and pinpointed their cause to diet drinks.

Your body tells you every day what it likes and does not like, but most people do not listen, they have simply chosen to ignore the signs.

 

What will happen if you stop?

 Replacing these drinks with healthier alternatives can alleviate a lot of symptoms.

  • Your mental clarity and focus will be sharper
  • You are more likely to stop getting migraines
  • Your taste buds will be more sensitive to what you ingest
  • Weight loss
  • Stronger Bones
  • Better food choices
  • Diabetes risk decreases
  • Better Kidney Function
  • More energy

 

There is a whole host of benefit to stopping these drinks. From the points mentioned above to reduction is various neurological symptoms mentioned throughout the article. I would seriously think twice before having diet drinks again.

Your health comes first!

 

To Summarise

Putting chemicals in your body without any thought of the consequences is way too prevalent in todays society. It is too easy to believe the hype or feel you are losing some kind of edge if you aren’t at least doing the same as everyone else.

And that is where the message is lost. Your body is way smarter than you. It knows what it likes and doesn’t like. It knows what it wants and it tells you should you choose to listen.

Our complex eco systems have no room for the next crazy product that promises to deliver you the best performance or make you stronger, leaner or faster.

Regardless of what sport you partake in, your health is the corner stone of everything you do and it is largely neglected as vanity kicks in and it becomes what you look like in the mirror instead of how you feel inside.

Your health is the only thing you truly own. Get that right and you will naturally become full of energy, more awake and just feel better. Building on that from a performance perspective is easy.

From my experience in nutrition coaching and an avid martial artist, I have no doubt that removing artificial ingredients from your day to day diet will increase your performance

I personally choose to avoid diet soft drinks, mainly because I don’t like the way I feel when I drink them and prefer to keep my body as free of artificial chemicals as possible.

To your strength and Health

 

Dean Coulson

 

 

References

 

“Excitotoxins” book by Dr Russell Blaylock

“The Sugar Detox” Book by Brooke Alpert

“10 Reasons to give up diet soda” – www.health.com

“8 Things happen when you finally stop drinking diet soda” – www.prevention.com

“Dietary Intake and Metabolic Syndrome” – http://circ.ahajournals.org/content/117/6/754.full.pdf+html
“Hold the Diet Soda, sweetened drinks linked to depression” http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2013/01/130108162135.htm
“Diet soda intake and risk of incident metabolic syndrome and type 2 diabetes” – http://care.diabetesjournals.org/content/32/4/688.short

“Consumption of artificially and sugar sweetened beverages and type 2 diabetes” – http://ajcn.nutrition.org/content/early/2013/01/30/ajcn.112.050997.abstract

“Fuelling the obesity epidemic? Artificially sweetened beverage use and long term weight gain” http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/18535548

“Coke and pepsi concede that maybe soda is bad for you” – https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/wonk/wp/2014/09/23/coke-and-pepsi-concede-that-maybe-soda-is-bad-for-you/
“Diet soft drink consumption is associated with increased risk of vascular events” – http://link.springer.com/article/10.1007%2Fs11606-011-1968-2

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mexican-fisherman
Health, mindset, Motivation

The Businessman and the Fisherman

… and what it can teach you about yourself…

“An American businessman was standing at the pier of a small coastal Mexican village when a small boat with just one fisherman docked. Inside the small boat were several large fish. The American complimented the Mexican on the quality of his fish.

“How long did it take you to catch them?” the American asked.
“Only a little while” the Mexican replied.
“Why don’t you stay out longer and catch more fish?” the American then asked.
“I have enough to support my family’s immediate needs” the Mexican said.
“But” the American then asked, “What do you do with the rest of your time?”
The Mexican fisherman said: “I sleep late, fish a little, play with my children, take a siesta with my wife, Maria, stroll into the village each evening where I sip wine and play guitar with my amigos. I have a full and busy life, senor.”
The American scoffed: “I am a Harvard MBA and could help you. You should spend more time fishing and with the proceeds you could buy a bigger boat and, with the proceeds from the bigger boat, you could buy several boats. Eventually you would have a fleet of fishing boats.
Instead of selling your catch to a middleman, you would sell directly to the consumers, eventually opening your own can factory. You would control the product, processing and distribution. You would need to leave this small coastal fishing village and move to Mexico City, then LA and eventually NYC where you will run your expanding enterprise.”
The Mexican fisherman asked: “But senor, how long will this all take?”
To which the American replied: “15-20 years.”
“But what then, senor?”
The American laughed and said: “That’s the best part. When the time is right, you would announce an IPO – an Initial Public Offering – and sell your company stock to the public and become very rich. You would make millions.”
“Millions, senor? Then what?”
The American said slowly: “Then you would retire. Move to a small coastal fishing village where you would sleep late, fish a little, play with your kids, take a siesta with your wife, stroll to the village in the evenings where you could sip wine and play your guitar with your amigos…”
 
So what can you be grateful for today that you are taking for granted?
 
You might just find that you had what you really wanted all along
 
Truth, Courage & Happiness
 
 
Dean x
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too much stuff
Balance, brainset, Health, Inspiration

Do You Have too Much Baggage to Succeed?

Have you ever noticed?

It seems as if we spend the first part of our lives collecting things…material possessions, and general baggage to try and make us happy.

we are convinced that buy shiny objects will lead to happiness

but have you ever realised?

That once you buy the thing you cannot live without it almost instantly loses its shine and so you move onto the next shiny object in the hope that it will be the answer to your smiles.

Then we get to a point in life when we realise that all of it is just “stuff”. Which doesn’t actually make much difference on our happiness or well being.

Then we spend the last part of our lives trying to get out from under it all and maybe patch up our damaged health or our poor relationships that we sacrificed in getting all this stuff.

Thing is until we start looking inside ourselves, we will still search everywhere else for the solution or blame everyone or thing why we don’t, even when the answer is right in front of us (or actually inside of us) all along. Sometimes we are just forced to confront them.

Like now.

I have been the same. Working so hard on everyone elses happiness I had been neglecting my own. I just never realised it at the time.

You see I love to help people, it is why I am here on this planet. But there is something I knew I should do first, but neglected to do until I forced myself to…

…to look after myself first.

<<<IMPORTANT FACT RIGHT THERE! >>>

If you know me, you probably know that can be terrible at getting back to you. Sometimes doing everything last minute, its never intentional.

You see I have been telling myself I haven’t got time to deal with all the work I have to do.

But I have called myself out my own B.S. It isn’t a tonne of messages or emails or enquiries I was faced with, it was because I am so unorganised.

Too much in my head, too much “stuff” on my desk to sort out.

This stuff can wear you out. We humans do that a lot to justify our actions. Make excuses as to why was cannot do something, It makes us feel better for the lack of success we’re having.

BUT

It doesn’t serve you AT ALL

Hiding behind the truth, scared in case you get found out. I’m willing to put money on it that you’re doing the same with your body.

Maybe you have sacrificed your body for you career or for raising your family and like me telling my self I am too busy.

You’ve been telling yourself you have no time for exercise,

You have no time to prepare your meals,

But in reality…. you’re spending wasted minutes in the day on Facebook – those minutes add up!

{TIP: Download the app “break free” to find out how much time you’re wasting on social media}

Or suppressing this lack of progress with naughty food, booze, internet, TV..etc

and because you’ve not been taking care of yourself, you’re not as productive at work, so your finances are not reaching their potential. You’re not present at home, so your not being intimate with your partner.

This all stems from not looking after yourself first.

i.e. You happiness, your fitness, your nutrition.

But the truth is too obvious and because it requires a change of routine, it’s easier to suppress the pain your covering up, with more sedation, more food, booze, tv, and internet etc…

So you continue to tell yourself LIES to justify why you cannot change and like me, you probably have had too much baggage in your environment.

So how about this…

Start by having a clear out

Bag up the clothes that you no longer wear,

Clean everything…Maybe you think you are dancing the hoover around like Mrs Doubtfire,

But probably look more like Freddie Mercury in the music video “I want to break free” wink emoticon

Change the bed sheets, open the windows, clear your workspace, get your feng shui on and feel zen like.

More importantly… De-stress and wipe the slate clean

Make the fresh start!

It’s SHOCKING how much environment stress weighs us down.

So just by detoxing your environment, you will feel that weight lift from your shoulders.

It’s an amazing feeling.

Taking the first step is the biggest effort

Once you have done that we can take care of other baggage for you…

like emotional stress

and digestive stress.

exercise stress…

So When will you be ready to deposit some energy into YOURSELF to become a better version of yourself?

let me know below…

Be True
Be Courageous
Be Happy

Dean x

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