What Is Your Biggest Fear?

it can STOP you from doing what you secretly love

It can STOP you from telling people you true desires

It can STOP you becoming the best version of you

It can STOP you from being the REAL you.

I have been guilty of this.

It took me a while to realise it

Thing is, everyone cares about what people think of them

so instead of being your true, authentic version of you

you turn up with the version that you think that will fit in

the one that will not be judged when they are with their friends, family, work colleagues

The version that laughs when everyone is laughing when you really want to cry

The version that ridicules when everyone is judging when you really want to be empathetic

The version that agrees with the conversation when you really want to disagree

But how does that serve you?

How does that serve you becoming a sub personality?

a version of you that stops you being you

undermining who you REALLY are?

Everybody has judged or does judge.

Thinking that others are judging you starts with you judging them, why else would you think they are judging you?

Realise that fear of judgement starts with you

Let go of judgement

Accept that having to act differently to fit in, does not serve you.

Accept that you can only control you

Accept that you can only work on being the best version of you…for YOU!

Appreciate that the true version of you is enough

other versions of you does not allow you to rise above

to fulfill your true potential

to become who you were destined to be.

Every day, turn up as the best version of you.

With gratitude and humility

with truth and honesty

forgo the fear, hate, anxiety and stress

and Embrace the real you

Truth, Love and Happiness

Dean