Who’s To Blame?

By on October 10, 2015
Not My Fault

When you take responsibility for your own actions you become in control of you.

Only then can you transform yourself to who you really want to be.

So you have to stop blaming other people.

All blame is a waste of time and energy.

No matter how much fault you find with another person, place, or thing and regardless of how much you blame them – it will not change anything.

You will never become successful as long as you continue to blame someone or something else for your lack of success.

If you are going to be a winner you have to acknowledge the truth…

it is you who took the actions, thought the thoughts, created the feelings, and made the choices that got you to where you are now.

If you continue to blame everyone and everything else you will miss every opportunity to work on the problem within yourself.

You will never find the solution because you’re always focused on the wrong person and thing.

You are the one who ate the junk food
You are the one who didn’t say no
You are the one who took the job
You are the one who committed the crime
You are the one who chose to believe them
You are the one who decided to take that step
You are the one who abandoned your dream
You are the one who spent your pay
You are the one who gave them permission
You are the one who didn’t take care of it
You are the one who ignored the warning signs

The bottom line is, you either create or allow everything that happens to you.

So choose how YOU want to live

and take back control of YOUR Life

make sense?

Be True (to yourSELF)
Be Courageous (to BE you)
Be Happy (with yourSELF)

Dean x

About Dean Coulson

• International Best Selling Author of the Fit Formula • Feature writer on Nutrition for the Uk’s biggest selling Martial arts magazine – Martial Arts Illustrated • Presenter & speaker - Tour the UK with Bafta Award Winning writer Geoff Thompson. (www.geofthompsoninspired.com ) • Owner and Performance coach at Assert Fitness Ltd. Taking our clients Dreams and makes them a reality, through the realms of coaching all aspects of health and fitness to busy professionals. • www.assert-fitness.co.uk , www.deancoulson.co.uk